There’s an invisible leak in many F&I offices—and it’s costing big. The issue? The push to sell products often comes before establishing whether the customer even needs them. Identifying and plugging this leak by focusing on what customers truly want will lead to a smoother process, greater productivity, and record results.
What’s the Leak?
It all comes down to three basic human needs: to be seen, heard and valued. Miss any of those, and you’ve got a leak. Every top performer in business, entertainment or politics knows this—so must we in F&I. Let’s look at how this leak shows up and what we can do to fix it.
1. We Try to Close Without Connecting
You’ve seen it: tired word tracks, outdated closes, and rehearsed pitches. They signal one thing to the customer—that they’re being sold, not seen. When customers feel like a number or a target, they resist. They dodge and deflect, and the sale becomes a battle.
But when we connect first, everything changes. When customers feel seen and understood, their defenses drop, and trust builds. Connection is more powerful than any close—because connection says, “I see you.”
2. We Try to Lead Without Listening
Listening is more than a soft skill—it’s a sales super-power. Most people don’t feel truly heard, and that’s exactly where you can stand out. You can’t help a customer if you don’t know what they care about: safety, budget, performance, style or status.
What’s the key to determining what motivates each customer? Ask great questions with genuine curiosity—and listen with intent. A listening ear always outperforms a selling mouth. When customers feel heard, they open up. In turn, when you listen, that’s when you can lead them to real solutions—ones they’ll buy into because they were part of creating them.
3. We Value Our Goals Over Theirs
Of course, we need to hit numbers. But when our goal to profit overrides our goal to serve, customers sense it—and they shut down.
Instead, shift your mindset. Make it your mission to understand the person in front of you more than sell to them. When people feel genuinely valued, they talk, they trust—and yes, they buy. When that happens, the leak is sealed, and the whole process flows better—for both sides.
The Bottom Line
This leak may be invisible to us—but customers feel it loud and clear. If we ignore their need to be seen, heard and valued, we invite resistance. But when we prioritize connection, listening and empathy, we create relationships that lead to loyalty and sales.
Fix the leak. Fuel the process. And watch everything rise—from trust to numbers.
See you at the top!
Rick McCormick is national director of training for Reahard & Associates.
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